Why Travel Bloggers Gotta Be Hatin?

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Appalled at You Travellers!

This rant has been brought to you by Lindsay Hogg. You’re welcome.

Just to be clear, this post is not directed towards any travel blogger or post in particular. It has been written for months and has been in the back of my mind since I started reading blogs, but I feel it is now time to share it.

Your blog is a good place to vent. About the people, places and things that annoy you. But sometimes people just need to chill out. What I’m getting at, is the ‘types of backpacker’ judgements. How going to a resort is not ‘real’ travel. That backpackers who just drink their way through countries aren’t ‘doing it right’. My opinion? WHO CARES?

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See! Happy Happy Fun Fun!

Me as a backpacker? Ya I’ll spend a week partying every night and sleeping all day. See a few things and move on. Ya I DO other stuff. Ya I DO immense myself in the culture and make local friends. For Christ sakes, I got arrested because I was hanging out with some crazy locals at their home. And you know where I met them? AT A BAR…. wait for it… while I was with OTHER TRAVELLERS! Oh no!

I have a great time dipping in both worlds.

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Boobs Are Fun Too!

I understand when people don’t like specific hostels or a cliched type of backpacker or traveller. People are annoying. People annoy me all the time.  As you may have read on here, I don’t like travel mooches. But seriously, I don’t care if you’re more travelled or know more about a specific culture than others. Woo-f&^%ing-Whoo for you. People don’t have to travel to the most remote spots on earth to be a true backpacker. Don’t tell me I’m not ‘doing travel right’ because I spend too much time drinking, with other travellers, or seeing touristy things. I do the remote spots and hang out with locals too – but even if I didn’t, WHO CARES?

You’re not my mom and you don’t know what’s best for me.

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Look at this asshole, he's SO happy drinking his beer. Just leave him be!

If someone thinks the best time of their life is getting wasted in a hostel bar, passing out in a hammock,then doing it all over again the next day… kudos to them. Are they enjoying themselves? Yes? Then leave them alone.

As travel bloggers, aren’t we supposed to encourage ANY sort of travel? Aren’t we supposed to be the most open minded? Why bloggers gotta be hatin?

Stop your whining and go hug a drunk/ gap year/ lazy traveller.

This is not a game of ‘who’s the better traveller’. It’s people’s lives and they will do what they enjoy, lay off them! Accept people and places for what they are.

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GO TEAM TRAVEL BLOGGERS! Let's accept people for who they are! YAAAY!


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Jessica March 14, 2011 at 4:58 PM

Ferrr reeeeeal!! i don’t read a lot of travel blogs, but i have come across these opinions in a lot of different places and they’re usually being spewed by someone who’s trying to posture themselves as the best and most worldly traveller. i like to hear about peoples travels – their stories, their observations, the sights, etc. but i don’t want to hear about “how” you travel and how much more “authentic” you are because you hang out with locals/don’t go to touristy spots/spent a year backpacking/whatever. all of those things are really cool, just don’t be a douchebag about it and tell me how much better you are than other travellers for doing them. cuz that makes you lame. HOLLA!

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Hogga March 14, 2011 at 5:08 PM

WORD SISTAH!

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Darius Gant March 14, 2011 at 4:59 PM

Hahahaha excellent rant. I haven’t come across judgmental backpackers…yet. But hey, when i was in Spain, I drank 4-5 days a week for 12 weeks, hung out with locals, and did whatever the hell I wanted LOL. I had the time of my life. Tell the haters to put the Hater-ade down!

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Hogga March 14, 2011 at 5:08 PM

Exactly! You did whatever YOU wanted. Not what other people would expect you to do!

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Nick March 14, 2011 at 5:01 PM

I hate judgemental backpackers. Travel bloggers are the worst at it – somehow it’s a dick measuring contest who can have the craziest/luxurious adventures on the cheap versus traveling to enrich themselves and to have unique adventures.

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Hogga March 14, 2011 at 5:09 PM

HAHA yes, it could be compared to penis size contests

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Jeremy March 14, 2011 at 5:33 PM

I only be hatin’ on the people who don’t travel. That or the one guy who wants to visit every country in the world and only spends 2 days in the capital city driving in taxis and eating McDonalds and complains about how hard it is to travel. That is not travel, that is visiting every McDonalds in the world. Different story.

Everyone else can do what they please as long as they actually get out of the country or state or province. My way of travel is right for me, so get off my back about it. [Not directed at you Hogga].

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Hogga March 14, 2011 at 5:40 PM

Oh it best not biznatch. Cause I got a fist full of angry cats with your name on it!
XO word to your mother.

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Candice March 14, 2011 at 7:57 PM

I don’t know you, but I love you. Please come to St. John’s so we can get super drunk and be sucky travellers.

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Hogga March 14, 2011 at 8:04 PM

And I love to be loved and love in return. love. beer. love.

What St.John’s we talking about here?

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Stephanie March 14, 2011 at 8:09 PM

Yah, I pretty much agree with you, and I wrote a similar post around this time last year. While I’m not a huge party traveller, people can travel however they wanna do it, and as long as they aren’t hurting anyone it’s a-ok with me. I can’t stand it when people try to turn travel into a pissing contest over who is doing it “right.”

That said, after a few months in Asia I have seen every single incarnation of the disrespectful traveller. Being rude to the locals, wearing inappropriate clothes and one guy even pissed on the floor of our hostel! They are the ones I do have a problem with.

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Hogga March 14, 2011 at 8:43 PM

Haha ya, pissing on hostel floors and being rude to locals are not people I would be to fond of either. Don’t get me wrong, there’s a lot of travel douchebags out there, but as you said… as long as their not hurting anyone (or anyones property) they are all good.

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Sheryll March 14, 2011 at 8:11 PM

*CLAPS! Bravo! I stumbled across this post through twitter and I couldn’t have said it better myself. I also agree with Candice, come to LA and shots are on me :)

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Hogga March 14, 2011 at 8:44 PM

Haha thanks Sheryll… don’t offer me things like that. I’m one of those people that will actually show up…. did you say FREE SHOTS??? word. I’m there.

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Seattle Dredge March 14, 2011 at 9:19 PM

hahaha yessss, it’s so true. Some people can be quite judgmental. Good job on calling them out :]

I think I’ve been on both ends of the “party spectrum”, be that passing out on some random Italian beach, or being the one that is trying to sleep in the noisy hostel to make an early flight.. either way, I NEVER complain about the other travelers, and neither should they!

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Hogga March 14, 2011 at 9:26 PM

It’s true. I can sleep through anything after travelling haha.

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amanda March 14, 2011 at 9:23 PM

I actually like seeing touristy things; they are touristy for a reason – because they are cool. No one would want to see them if they sucked. I met this one traveller who, when asked why she wasn’t taking photographs by her mother, mocked the really cool trees at a tourist spot in Florida. LOLOL I’M THE FUNNIEST!

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Hogga March 14, 2011 at 9:27 PM

HAHA… shut up mandar! They weren’t ‘tourist trees’

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Mica March 14, 2011 at 9:59 PM

Ahhaha I loved this post…especially the caption of the drunk *asshole*! Hilarious! I totally agree-to each his own! And if you don’t like it, then move on!
Who says there is a right way to travel? herro? Just don’t piss/barf on my hostel bed, please.

Trust.

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Hogga March 14, 2011 at 10:30 PM

Ya its actually a pic of my friend so I’m allowed to say that. I’m actually surprised I’ve never witnessed a traveller barfing in the room!

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Ieishah March 15, 2011 at 6:46 AM

Yassss! Perfect, perfect post! I live in Barcelona, one of the biggest tourist traps in the world, and I can safely say ALL TRAVELERS ARE ANNOYING! Every single one of them! Crazy to me that some believe they are better than others when we all know expats are the *real thing*… Ha!

(that was sarcasm, before I get myself in trouble.)

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Hogga March 15, 2011 at 8:43 AM

HAHA! Yes, we are all annoying. Lets accept it

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Annie March 23, 2011 at 10:17 AM

Hehe so true but we all know locals can be goddamn annoying too. Let’s face it. Fuck other people! You alone are the only person that matters. hehe. I kid, I kid. That’s life huh?

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Hogga March 23, 2011 at 10:23 AM

I like this side of you Annie haha

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Julia March 15, 2011 at 8:37 AM

AMEN, sister! *said in Ricki Lake audience member stylee* Seriously, I agree 100% with everything you’ve said above cos I’ve felt it myself in the past. There is no ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ way to travel – just do what makes you happy and enjoy it. And then write an honest account of it and we’ll read it. But the preachers and the haters? They can get lost. How can anyone judge anyone else? It shouldn’t be allowed.

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Hogga March 15, 2011 at 8:42 AM

WORD! *said in Jerry Springer audience member style*

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Ayngelina March 15, 2011 at 10:09 AM

Oooh ouch you totally called me out!

Okay yeah I’m one who did write a hater post. But in my defense the point of the post was that I thought I was all ‘oh yeah everyone should do their thing’ and then I got into a hostel I shouldn’t have been in and was hating everyone.

Agree with you though, if you just want to hang in the hostel bar and drink your way through countries, do your thing, but I won’t be there.

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Hogga March 15, 2011 at 10:37 AM

HAHA! I didn’t call you out. There’s been a lot more ‘i hate this type of traveller’ posts lately. But I wasn’t referencing yours… Like you said, your post was about hating the hostel and that type of travel is not for you. It wasn’t against that type of traveller itself, you werent saying those travellers should travel the way you do. Just that you had been mislead as to what the hostel would be like and was annoyed.

If I was calling you out specifically I would have egged your house.

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Ayngelina March 28, 2011 at 11:19 AM

You totally hate me for hatin’

Admit it hater :)

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Hogga March 28, 2011 at 6:40 PM

I love you for hating but hate hate and hate. I like kittens.

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Christy @ Ordinary Traveler March 15, 2011 at 12:32 PM

I agree with you when you say… “Who cares!?” It doesn’t matter to me how people travel as long as they are not inconsiderate to other people who don’t travel the same way.

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Hogga March 15, 2011 at 4:19 PM

Yes I should really include that in the post – that as long as they aren’t harming anyone, their good. Because if they are you should throw sticks at them.

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Brian @ Wanderings March 15, 2011 at 4:22 PM

Absolutely! Hardcore travelers can be such snobs. You’d never think that someone who just washed his underwear in the sink would be in any position to look down on anyone else, but you see it all the time.

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Hogga March 15, 2011 at 4:25 PM

HAHA… well played my friend…

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Scott March 16, 2011 at 8:30 AM

great post. The Snobs have got to go.

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Hogga August 4, 2011 at 3:15 PM

Can we burn them like people burned witches back in the day?

errr too far?

well this is awkward…

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Connie March 16, 2011 at 10:17 AM

Love your photos and captions!

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Jackie March 21, 2011 at 3:12 PM

Wow, THANK YOU for saying exactly what I’ve been thinking for, like, EVER. It’s not like every trip has to be this huge, soul-searching expedition. Sure, some trips will be, and that’s great. But it’s not like I didn’t really TRAVEL because I hit up an uber-touristy Absolut Ice Bar while you ZMOG BUILT YOUR OWN IGLOO WITH YOUR BARE HANDS or something.

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Hogga August 4, 2011 at 3:14 PM

I should write about things that anger me more often

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Annie March 23, 2011 at 10:06 AM

I totally agree with you, it’s always something. If travelers aren’t too lazy then they go and see the same sites as everyone else so then they’re not original. No one seems to be good enough for some people. Then some of those people write posts about how much they hate traveling, hate certain cities or hate other people. Aren’t those like the points of what we are doing? Not that you have to like every city you see but I assume you should like a few of them, otherwise you might be in the wrong ‘profession’ or, rather, hobby. :)

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Hogga August 4, 2011 at 3:15 PM

yeah, I’m gonna start writing a hate column about people who hate stuff…

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Claire April 6, 2011 at 9:49 AM

One of the more blunt posts that I have seen on this same topic recently, but well-stated nonetheless! I’m with you….”you’re not my mom and you don’t know what’s best for me!”

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Hogga August 4, 2011 at 3:13 PM

haha my mom is a bossy pants. She always knows ‘what’s best’

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Anthony November 27, 2011 at 5:49 AM

Boobs are great.

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Hogga November 27, 2011 at 11:04 AM

true story

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John December 5, 2011 at 4:43 PM

Followed the trail over here from Margyle’s uninteresting people who travel post. I think this post captures the reason most people travel – to have fun. Perhaps it doesn’t make them interesting or wise, as you would have believe from all of those vacuous travel quotes posted on Twitter, but who cares, when you are enjoying yourself?

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Hogga December 6, 2011 at 4:31 PM

Exactly! I always enjoy myself! Even when I’m hungover napping in a hammock all day haha

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Adam February 7, 2012 at 5:39 PM

here here! people are just people – so long as we don’t hurt others i see no problem with being a stereotypical gap-year backpacker :D

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